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Its good to finally believe in love again :D

Its not so good when such love has an expiry date on it ...

To my friends out there , i'm neither single nor am i attached

Thats the kind of relationship i'm in right now

A dubious kind of relationship which has an expiry date on it

You'd be right to call me crazy , telling me i'm wasting my time , telling me i'm just gonna get hurt again.

To my friends you're absolutely right, its crazy to be with someone who i can never be together with

It makes sense that i am wasting my time with such a person

I'm assure you i will be heartbroken when this is over

But nonetheless i know i wont regret it .


8 months back i got my heart broken

8 months later i found the strength and trust in relationships which had deserted me back then .

Now i put it to you my friends, be happy that i have learnt to love once again.

And don worry WE really do know there isn't gonna an happy ending .



For all your concern

i thank you

Expiry date

Its funny how certain things you thought would foever be tangible can appear to be something else in a short space of time.

I guess everything has an expiry date. Would trying to preserve something close to expiring be worth the while , or would it be a waste of time ?

2 different groups of people gave me their views, both logical and reasonable . However they contradict each other fully. The grounds in which this advisors stand are even more controversial .

I really need meet new people .

with the pictures gone from both your hardrive and mine somehow a part of me just got torn away...

maelstorm

"Something alway leads me back to you, it never takes to long .. "

Sarah Bareilles ~ Gravity

How apt a song to summerise how i'm feeling right now. This feeling feels most familiar i must say, forcefully so cause i've felt this way many times in my life , sadly too many times in my life .....

People say feelings come ago just like the seasons, yet some kinds of feelings linger on for years to come, it's this lingering that is tormenting, this uncertainy that floats at the the edge of my conscious when i wake and before i yield to bed at night.

Ever came upon the situation where u've got to take sides ? what happens when both sides have a valid reason, what happens when 1 side forgos the happiness of another , what happens when both sides are close to you , what happens when one's your heart and the other's the mind ...

Logic and instinct . Logic is derived from the waves in your brain , Instinct is that imaginative and invisible energy that gives birth to our gut feeling. Both are flawlessly embeded in the choices we make everyday yet they themselves resist the full picture of things and are flawed in the directions they provide for us. The Ying and Yang of decision per say ~

So what happens when you heart tells you one thing but your mind says another, when you then turn to logic and instinct to be the deciding factor only to see them leave their signature on the chaos already formed.

What happens now ?

From what was once 1, is now 2
Stem 2 different " love " stories
while one goes all out to embrace the love re-found
the other wonders  and thinks too much without making a sound.

Penny for my thoughts

which then led me to blog ...

Bitten once shame on you, bitten twice shame on me

1 day 2 posts , it just shows how bothered i am by it.

why do i always have to be the one left being high and dry , with no idea what the F just happened.
why do i always have to be the one sacrificing and getting hurt
why do i always have to be the 1 sucking up the pain and consoling the other party
why do i always do the right thing and get misunderstood

who then

is goona explain to me what the F just happened
gonna take away my hurt
is gonna console me
really gonna take the effort to understand


until that person comes along

Cupid can go away ....

1 stone killed 3 birds

Once again i feel wronged again, over the years different issue , different person but same end result and reason. Doing the right thing, being selfess yet losing friends. Don't you just love the rewards.

You say its Deja~vu  but its not. If you could tell her , why couldn't i tell him.
You were were the bringing of good tidings while i was the one sharing the bad news
yet you couldn't see that. If you felt like undermined by me telling him , just spare a moment and be in or shoes, mine and his .

You said it was just assumptions. If it really was just all assumptions then i wouldn't be blogging her and you wouldn't have been that bothered and confused last night. Assumptions were a thing of a past but you hung on to them just to make your last stand at 12 midnight.

If is was all an assumption then we've both been fools for the past week then. Smiling in the middle of the day must have been due to muscle reflexes .



You wanted more but all i wanted was just a friend ....

"You seek signs I make them. I seem shy but its okay, with you in my life it will be a brighter day"

By : Werty Question.

Nice poem amidst the others i found online. Somehow i feel like doing a Corriane May; Scars, " just want to run, just wanna hide away, close my eyes to yours gaze "

Its tues and i'm feeling sick , FPD tml , i really detest it right now, limited resources, limited deadline and limited knowledge and limited motivation. Hope it goes well tml.

Cant wait for thurs to come and then i can finally rest.

Talking about relationships when you're not in one does 2 things to you, confusion .... and ..... confusion.

0908 vent .....

All of a sudden i feel like there is a huge void in my life , left behind my the abscence of someone in my life. A void that makes me feel superbly incomplete. A void that confuses my waking thoughts and jumbles up my sleeping moments.

Remain as friends , thats what you said. Looks like u're getting better and moving along fine and leaving me as just a "person" who was once part of your history. Its one thing to lose someone you loved, its another thing to lose a friend.

Losing someone you love .. the pain involved is obvious enough. the heartache is evident.
But losing you one as a friend makes one doubt and question whether the things we did together in the past were real or a just a figment of my imagination.

You will obviously know who I am talking about, I not trying to give off false hope here by saying this but i really miss you as a friend, i really need you as a friend cause you were up till then a really big part of my life. Now that your're gone, my sanity is questioned my memory whether or not that past 2.5 years were nothing but a creation of my imagination ...

tis a good twing bouta blog tat no one reads .....

Feeling better already. thanks to the friends like hui ru and shan for the words of comfort :D
thanks for the talk dear , it really helped :D
I'm back in the race hahahah