here is a list of the activites of the past 2 weeks . the more significant ones . cause i cant remember al of them .
~making jeffery's birthday cake
~attending the wonderful bbq
~went o california gym for the first time
~went to watch part of eragon
~went k boxing yesterday
~the musical by amandas church was nice
~R4 class gathering at cartel
~ and the stupid stomach flu that has been bugging mi for the past few days . worms in my stomach maybe .


now to the more important issue .

To : the people who currently hate guys/jerks , (u know who u are )

Everyone knows its that hy is in alot of pain now . who wont be after such an event . but will prosecuting lim make hy better . no right ? will making lim feel guilty make hy any happier ? i doubt so . and if u really due manage to change jl mindset , and he does go after her , can imagine how much mental stress she will be in . by asking lim to go after her , she would feel like lim is playing with her , which he is not . he has ended it . if he is to rekindle his attraction for her , she would be feeling worst then she is now . half of her wants t be with him , half of her never wants to see him anytime soon . Sure u are frens who care about the welfare of this fair maiden , but please bear in mind , there is a limit to the kind of help u can give . Lim had already decided his choice , and no amount of "persuasion" is gonna change his oppinion . like what i had told jasmine , does it mean once a girl steads with a guy , they cannot break up , they must get married . if it has not dawned upon u , this is the "sense of things " that u are trying to drive into lims head . Who wont suffer hearbreaks ? if the person who is on the recieving end is not doing anything , could that not be an indication that she has had enough , being her closest friend , do u still want to subject her to such emotional pressure . and to fulfil her wishes . on the night they broke up , she smsed tp the guys , a quote " please do not pressure lim to much , he treasures his frens very much " some how i think the msg should have been directed to u . push lim hard enough , pressure him and he may even change impression about u gals . after all , who would want to go out or talk with people who keep pressuring him ?

and lastly ur comment that all guys are jerks . it may be on impulse that u said that but lets be sensible , if lim is a jerk just cause he broke her heart then u gals are none the better . ask ur selves , have any of u gals not broken any guys heart before ? i am sure u have and since u have , u can come join the club of jerks u have so called made , cause u too are part of the "jerks" society